How to Integrate When Joining a New Tennis Club
Joining a new tennis club can feel daunting, especially in a sport that often feels solitary. From adult group coaching to social tennis, here are our top tips for settling in and finding your perfect hitting partners.


AI Generated. A typical scene from an evening at a tennis club.
Taking the plunge and joining a new tennis club is an exciting step, but it can also feel remarkably intimidating. By its very nature, tennis can be a lonely sport. When it's just you on your side of the net, without the built-in camaraderie of a football squad or a rugby team, building a new network of friends and hitting partners takes a bit of proactive effort.
I recently joined Holcombe Brook Sports Club, a local tennis club with all-weather (well apart from the rain!) floodlit courts, brand new padel courts along with a bar and lounge area. Using my experience settling in there, I've put together a few tips on how you can integrate into any new tennis club, find your people, and make the most of your membership.
1. Dive into Adult Group Coaching
Even if you consider yourself a seasoned amateur, signing up for adult group coaching is arguably the fastest way to meet people at a similar level.
Coaching sessions strip away the pressure of arranging matches yourself. You simply turn up, hit plenty of balls, and get chatting while picking up the balls or waiting your turn in drills. At clubs like Holcombe Brook, adult coaching timetables cater to everyone from complete beginners to advanced team players.
Networking Tip: Don't be afraid to ask someone you enjoyed hitting with if they fancy a friendly knock at the weekend. A simple, "You hit a lovely forehand, fancy a hit on Saturday?" is often all it takes to find a regular playing partner.
2. Make the Most of Social Tennis Sessions
Almost every club runs weekly 'Social Tennis' or 'Club Play' sessions. These are usually drop-in events where players mix in for short doubles sets.
If you are new, this is the golden ticket. It can be nerve-wracking to put your racket down to mix in for the first time, but remember that every single person there had a 'first day' once. Social sessions are explicitly designed for inclusivity.
Networking Tip: Stick around afterwards! The integration doesn't stop when you step off the court. If your club has a bar or lounge area—like the excellent newly renovated setup at Holcombe Brook—stay for a drink. The conversations you have over a post-match pint or a coffee are where acquaintances turn into firm friends.
3. Embrace the Competitive Side: Box Leagues and Teams
For those with a competitive itch, social tennis might not always scratch it. If you want to test your mettle, look out for inner-club box leagues.
Box leagues group players of similar abilities into small "boxes" where everyone plays each other over a month or two, with promotions and relegations at the end of the cycle. It forces you to reach out to new people to arrange your matches, naturally expanding your network of opponents.
If you want to represent the badge, ask the club captain about joining a club team. Playing in regional or local leagues adds a brilliant team dynamic to what is otherwise a solitary sport. Travelling to away fixtures, strategising during doubles rubbers, and the post-match suppers provide a tremendous sense of belonging.
4. Use Club Apps and WhatsApp Groups
Modern tennis clubs are increasingly connected. Whether it's booking courts through systems like ClubSpark or joining the club's official WhatsApp groups, get yourself plugged into the digital community.
Many clubs have "looking for a hit" groups. Don't be shy—post a message saying you are new to the club, state your rough standard (e.g., intermediate, rusty, or advanced), and ask if anyone is free on a Tuesday evening. The response is almost always positive.
The Bottom Line
Tennis doesn't have to be a lonely pursuit. Grassroots clubs thrive on community, and they want you to feel at home. Whether you're enjoying the floodlit courts on a crisp autumn evening or catching up in the clubhouse, throwing yourself into the coaching, social sessions, and leagues will ensure your new club quickly feels like a second home.

About the Author
James Heggs
Later in life tennis adopter. Passion outweighing skill.